You may be wondering, how did I come up with this stuff? Because I felt like such a loser, I couldn’t believe it. Throughout my life some very hot girls have told me that I’m a pretty good looking guy, that I’m smart, funny, and I’m a nice guy, believe it or not, and I was still a complete loser when it came to girls.

I think it had something to do with when I was growing up I was really skinny. I mean scrawny. Tooth pick, pencil legs, Ethiopian, you name it, I was called it. Anyway, I think this messed up my self-esteem. Even years later, after I was working out and putting on some muscle, I still couldn’t shake my fear of intimacy and my fear of rejection. My fear was telling a girl what I wanted because I felt so self-conscious and unworthy.

Listen, I’ve never been to a shrink or anything, but this is my interpretation of it. To make a long story short, I got so pissed off at myself that I set out on a mission to change my life. I was so bored and lonely. I don’t know if you can understand, but I went freaking nuts.

When I really decided that I was going to come out of my shell, I would force myself to walk up and start hitting on the most beautiful girls I could find. I’m serious. I would do this in places where I didn’t know anyone else so I wouldn’t be humiliated, but I would go out on a mission. The beach, the grocery store, the gym, Barnes and Noble, etc. No matter where I was, I would walk up to those girls like I owned the place and just start spitting game at them.

Of course, at first I sounded like an idiot and my heart was pounding, but you know what? After a while, I got a little more confident. I would actually get some phone numbers and even some dates from some smoking hot girls who I would have never in a million years had the guts to even say hi to!

After a while of forcing myself to go out and hit on the hottest girls I could find, instead of being afraid and nervous, I was thrilled. It was exciting and fulfilling. This whole book is basically a result of years of making notes to myself and documenting my experiences and my thoughts about girls, meeting them, dating, sex, relationships, and my search for my soul mate, down on paper so I could keep reminding myself of these things. So now I’m reminding you.

By the way, I didn’t put this whole book together because I think that I’m so cool. Well, actually I did, but it wasn’t only me. When I would talk with people about my views on meeting girls and relationships, often they would tell me I should write a book. “Dude, you should write a book,” I can still hear them saying. You can only be so dumb before you read the writing on the wall. I needed to write a book. So I took all my scribbles and my journal entries that I had saved over the years, organized them, and put them together into what you are reading now.

When I decided this is what I was going to do, I started sharing it with more and more people to see if I was insane, or if this could work and help other people, or if people would care. Everyone kept telling me to go for it, so I did, and here you have it. I sincerely hope it will do for you even a fraction of what it has done for me because life is too wonderful of a gift to experience alone.